Is it lack of education! or did you both go to university and acquire the same qualifications but he is flying high while you trail behind and can't seem to find your way.

We may all have the brain power but finding out how to use it is the problem.  A big part of our make up is confidence, or the lack of it. If you lack confidence you can get through the normal every day business but when it comes to making decisions you feel your confidence fading away and start dithering about which way to go.

If you have confidence you are willing to try anything within reason without worrying too much about what the end product will be.  This is how men or women succeed, they put their ideas into practise and they are willing to give them a go.

Failure is not an option and it is only after going down every avenue and coming to a full stop that they will admit to failure. But that will not stop them as before long the next idea is born.

Do you shrink away from thought of being the first up on the dance floor, or do you act like a frightened mouse at an interview?  You lack the confidence to do what others will do naturally and that is your biggest failing.

If you have low esteem this could be the cause of your lack of your confidence. No one should have low esteem you are as good as the next person and you should believe yourself to be so.

If you would like some help in restoring your confidence you can visit this website which offers a free course.     http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/   or you can browse through these books below to see if they will help you.